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I’m kicking off with this question. As a law of attraction practitioner, this is a question I get asked a lot. Even if you don’t at first think it relevant to you, it’s worth reading as there are some really useful tips further into this post.
On my YouTube channel, the video I made in reply to the question “Can I use the law of attraction t get my ex back or make someone fall in love with me?” has so far had more hits than any of my other videos. My response also caused quite a stir on one of the Law of attraction forums I occasionally post on.
You can watch the video here and then I’ll talk a little more about it below.
Okay, so let me clear a few questions that came up from this video about whether you can use the law of attraction to get an ex back or make someone fall in love with you.
1st ~ Yes, people have used the law of attraction to get an ex back and yes, people have used the law of attraction to HELP someone fall in love with them. This is not in question.
2nd ~ You ABSOLUTELY CANNOT make someone fall in love with you if it is not their desire to do so. That is my firm belief!
If we could make people do things they didn’t want to do using the law of attraction, we wouldn’t all be able to use it equally (and we can). There would just be a few people who could use it and the rest of us would just have to live a life that those few people wanted.
If John and Jane have separated because of a few problems but deep down both of them want to be together, then absolutely, the law of attraction can go a long way to bring this couple back together happily.
If Sue and Steve separated and Sue desperately wants to get back with Steve but Steve is madly in love with Jennifer and Jennifer is madly in love with Steve and Steve can’t stand the sight of Sue anymore, it’s not likely to work out for Sue no matter how much she wants it.
Sorry if this offends people and you are completely welcome to believe something else if you wish but as a law of attraction practitioner, this is my reply to that particular question.
Focus on yourself first. Get to know yourself and fall in love with yourself first and foremost.
Next, make a long list, write a story, tell a story about your ideal relationship. Don’t focus on any person, simply focus on the relationship you’d really like to attract.
A loving, happy and respectful relationship. My spouse/partner/husband/wife… loves to spend time with me and we love to go out for nice meals, go to the cinema, he like… films, he is kind natured and speaks to me respectfully, he’s interested in what I’m doing and what I have to say, he makes me laugh…
Then go on to talk about how you feel. I feel happy, safe, secure, loved, valued…
Now, you have a clear story/picture of your ideal relationship, you need to start becoming a match for it. See the 30-day law of attraction challenge post to find out how to become a match for what you want.
I have lots more blog posts about how to use the law of attraction in business and life. Take a look at my LAW OF ATTRACTION blog posts
If you have questions about what I’ve talked about in this post or if you’d like to ask a different law of attraction question, just leave a comment below.
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